From People.com Looking at this makes me so sad!"It's safe to say that Kate Gosselin has gotten wind of her estranged husband's new girlfriend.
At the family's Wernersville, Pa., home on Wednesday morning, Jon and Kate played with their kids outside, but remained chilly toward one another. Kate goofed around with her children, even riding a tricycle herself, and while Jon joined in on the fun, he and Kate did not interact much. Both Jon and Kate have pledged to focus on the needs of their eight children as they go forward with their divorce. "Our goal is to do the very best for our children," they said in a joint statement last month. Recently, the couple put their differences aside while they celebrated the Fourth of July as a family. But that was before Jon went public about his relationship with his new girlfriend Hailey Glassman, 22.
After their awkward playtime, Kate – with luggage in tow – hugged her kids goodbye and drove off, leaving Jon with the kids. (Instead of shuttling their brood between two residences, the couple take turns living at the home.)
On Wednesday, an observer reports that Jon spent a lot of time on the phone and, "looked very angry and frustrated." The family will resume filming their reality show, Jon and Kate Plus Eight Aug. 3."
Radar Online claims that after flying to the U.S. from France on Tuesday, Jon went back to his new secret apartment in New York. How do they know? Apparently they saw him going in with groceries! His girlfriend, Hailey Glassman, 22, took a separate car after they arrived in the U.S. Funny how we have seen no photos of this and they usually have photos of EVERYTHING right???
Jon Has Diarrhea Of The Mouth To TMZ.COM
Among Jon's Gems (I thought he wasn't supposed to be talking?) He talks about his new "girlfriend", says he cant discuss Kate because of contracts, brags about his Gucci, and states that there are 34 out of the 40 episodes left to film that's now just his "job". As you can see Baby Mama is PISSED! If you cant watch the video it's HERE.
I wonder where Kate will spend her time away from the kids... hopefully somewhere private, boring, and low key where the p-people can't get any good pics of her. It'll be a nice change from all the press on Jon's trip.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sorry for Kate. I can't believe Jon is hanging out with such a low life as Hailey. She is not a good role model for the children. I hope they never have to meet her. I hope Kate gets a chance to relax. I guess Jon has changed. His priorties are not the children. I think he's going through a mid-life crisis. He will regret what he has done to his family.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend considering this type of custody, called "birds in the nest" where the parents rotate in/out of the "family" house. I have never heard of it being successful. I'm sure this will be through filming, then they will move on to a new arrangement. This has got to be unbearable for Kate, to leave the kids.
ReplyDeleteHe honestly makes me sick to my stomach. HOW in the world can he behave like this when he has 8 impressionable people HE helped create? Truly disgusting. All I keep hearing in my head is his stoner statement "you know, one day my kids are gonna google me".
Yup, they are, and you'll have a lot to feel shameful about. You have no idea how lucky those kids are to have Kate. Nothing she could have done deserves this kind of humiliation.
I've heard (or read) that Kate is staying close to home on her "time off" and that she is fuming mad because Jon took Deanna to THEIR home while she was touring with the book. My next question-was JON stupid enough to bring Hailey home to weekend prior to the announcement (while he was in charge of the kids over Father's Day weekend) and that is what Kate referenced to (Jon's actions over the weekend prompted me to protect myself and our children)......HMMMMMMM? Do they still have the big blue bus I wonder OR did Kate trade it in for her new Toyota? I saw in photos from Thursday that the little white van is parked in the driveway.
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for Kate having to leave the kids for the weekend. I hope she goes and talks to lawyers or whatever she needs to, to take total control over her life and to be sure she is taking the right steps towards any sort of custody of the children. Jon in my eyes does not deserve to be even at that house right now. YOu know he is texting his gf and chatting online I am sure to her constantly...how is that spending quality time with 8 kids. I just makes me sick and I too dont know if I can listen to him speak when the new episodes return. My heart goes out to Kate and I wish her much strength.
ReplyDeleteAt the airport when TMZ was video taping Jon's arrival, they said to him "your being a gentleman about this" (meaning being video taped), and he replied "hey you guys have a job to do". I remember after the original photos surfaced with Jon in bars, he said on the show "he can't go out like a normal person anymore because of the p-people" very annoyed.
ReplyDeleteI can't figure him out !
I think the p-people should follow Hagley Glassman, oops Hailey, and give her what she wants, exposure. Afterall, she needs to get a taste of what her future holds.
ReplyDelete....I wonder what TLC is thinking behind the scenes? This show has been turned completely upside down and I am not sure I can watch it with the same zest I used to. Will it become less about the kids and more about our morbid curiousity to assess every word and action on the part of Jon and/or Kate? Plus I am not sure I can stomach watching Jon after this. My respect for him is sub-zero and not likely moving up anytime soon. My heart breaks for Kate and her beautiful children.
ReplyDeleteBabyMama, just wanted to let you know I really appreciate the frequent posts. It's nice to see all the updated information and be able to comment on it. Since there is so much going on it's great to see the posts this frequently. Hope your able to keep doing it! Much appreciated!!!
ReplyDeleteThis entire situation is so disturbing. Now that Jon is able to "be himself", I wonder if his supporters are seeing Jon in a new light. He's more visible out in public than he was before the announcement displaying behavior that is vastly different than before. I guess his Christian values are now out the window?
ReplyDeleteAccording to this site, Hailey has failed when trying to get her moment in the spot light, looks like she found her way now that she's w/Jon
ReplyDeletehttp://www.examiner.com/x-3366-Bisexuality-Examiner~y2009m7d16-Jon--Kate-plus-a-bi-girlfriend
As for what mamaholly said, I know JON got a new car a couple months ago, Kate spoke to 'People' before they announced the D about how he didn't even consult her on that. I don't recall hearing about Kate driving a new Toyota. I don't see how either parent can take all 8 kids somewhere for a day (say if they wanted to do something w/the kids other than stay at the house) w/o the blue bus.
I couldn't help but want to peek at what some of the troll sites are saying about all this, particulary about Jon and Hailey's getaway. No surprise they are putting the blame on Kate. I won't repeat here what is being said but it just proves to me that they are and always have been fueled by their hatred and jealousy of Kate. Not much was being said about the kids and what all this could mean to them.
ReplyDeleteHe makes me want to throw up. Earrings, smoking, 22 year old girl friend he's such a creep.
ReplyDeleteI can understand being frustrated with Kate, and asking for a divorce, but I can't understand this bizarre personal behavior. What a JERK!
3KMOM~ Thanks so much girl for your unwavering support on this and the old site! This summer I havent seen the "regulars" as much. I know everyone is busy (including myself) and its nice for them to be able to come here and get the latest on whats going on.
ReplyDeleteI have always vowed to continue with this site until it is impossible for me to do so. My baby is approaching toddler hood at full speed and its been hard with work to keep up. But thanks to everyone for the love and support and I'm here if you need me or have any questions or concerns. This is my little way of showing Kate that we are there for her and support her.
What a bastard! KATE ROCKS!!!
ReplyDeleteI can't believe Jon blatantly says in the interview to people magazine that he knows his stepping out with Hailey will be scrutinized and yet he does it anyway! What a moron. He just seems sooooooo different from the Jon on the show. If this is him being who he really is then he doesn't have much to be proud of!
ReplyDeleteDoes he really think this fame hog of a girl is really into him for who he is? Who knows, maybe he does know it but couldn't care less. He'd probably take a good roll in the hay any way he can get it. He's got the money to ply her with gifts so I guess it is a win win situation in his eyes. One thing is for sure though, I don't buy how thinks about his kids every 10 minutes and then when he's home with them all he seems to do is have his nose buried in his cell phone. I know I have said this a million times before too but I just don't get how he can do this knowing his kids are going to get wind of it. He really is putting himself first like all the psychologists are saying. I guess it is his way of sticking it to Kate and showing the world that he makes his own decisions and that he doesn't owe anyone anything anymore. Too bad he looks like an ass doing it!!
I just watched the video and Jon is so discusting. I feel horrible for Kate and the kids. As a mother if my husband was to ever pull this kind of crap I would not allow him near the kids until things got straightened out Jon is not a good role model for his children.
ReplyDeleteBaby mama you are so great for keeping up the posts and for supporting kate during this time. and Vikki is right, Jon will regret what he is doing now eventually and its gonna sting especially when he has those little faces to answer to. of all the people for him to hook up with, and so quickly, eeewwww, gross. Much love goes out to them and to Kate for being so strong and sticking with what is important, god bless them.
ReplyDeleteThis has to be super depressing for Kate, all i can think about was when they got married and Jon said his vows. That a flippin joke! "For better or worse to death do us part" yeah right! I think he also said in his vows he wanted to be with Kate for another 100 years was it? I think Jon met to say 100 DAYS.
ReplyDeleteHe is being a really big jerk right now. Like ive said before im sure Kate was hard to deal with at times but that doesnt give him the right to run around and act like this.
Jon also said he was "worried" about the kids googling him when they got older, well Jon i think you might have a lot of explaining to do.
As he turned to get into the car in his teenager outift, after his teenager smoke break and his teen ager commnets, it made me chuckle to see that the balding on top of his head still shows his age. Ha Ha.
ReplyDeleteHe is being ridiculous!!! I admire Kate for being patient and keeping her mouth shut. He clearly wants to get a rise out of her and cause a big public fued but she's not taking the bait.
I had thought that on the Monday that Kate filed for the divorce when she spoke of Jon's irresponsible behaviour and needing to protect herself and the kids that she was talking about his spending a ton of money on a New York condo. I thought perhaps she meant he was spending their money like water and needed to protect their financial interests.
ReplyDeleteI think in the years of the show's production that if he were responsible and motivated she would not have been as direct and bossy. But in a house with eight children there needs to be a strong sense of organization and leadership. For Kate it was probably a case of sink or swim.
It was not that long ago (with the speed at which everything has been happening, NOTHING is that long ago!) that people were concerned about the effect all of the nasty comments being made about Kate would have on the kids when they came across them later on when they were older. Not exactly quoting here, but along the lines of "if you care so much about the kids, quit the Kate-bashing tactics regarding their mother." And I agree!
ReplyDeletePeople who care about the welfare of the children should not be making rude remarks publicly about their mother. It then follows that it’s just as detrimental to make rude remarks about their father!
Jon's actions speak for themselves. It's bad enough that someday his kids may "Google" him and see all these pictures. Should any of us be contributing to that by calling him names?
Regardless of what he says or does, he's still their father and they love him. How many times have you seen ABUSED & NEGLECTED kids crying as they are wrenched from their parents arms? Kids who've been through far worse than their father dating an inappropriate woman. They still love the parent, in spite of the physical scars they may wear because of that parent.
What will the Gosselin children think when they read the comments here, on the Gosselin fan site, calling their father an @$$, jerk, drifter, and worse?
Jon-bashing is no more productive than Kate-bashing. In the long run, both Jon and Kate’s actions will speak for themselves, without the running commentary.
I have always enjoyed the show and yes I do believe Kate had some moments that were a little harsh through the years but who doesn't? I mean, if a camera was taping me I'm sure you would see a lot of those moments between me and my husband as well. However, through all of this, Jon has completely changed and not for the better. I am so disgusted by his actions and how he is dealing with all of this. Smoking, jet setting with a girlfriend and all while saying "I can't be just Jon anymore, I have to be Jon and kate plus 8". Well, he will always be Jon and kate plus 8 because that's how people know him. He got his popularity that way but he is showing total disregard for his children. A lot of people blame things on Kate but I think Jon is going through a mid-life crisis and he will some day realize that the grass is not always greener on the other side. In the last few episodes he was so hateful to Kate and the kids. He didn't speak to anyone or looked like he was mad all the time. It's such a shame that they have to go through this. At least Kate isn't throwing herself out in the spotlight...after all, I though that's what Jon hated the most?? Sure doesn't seem like it now does it?
ReplyDeleteI agree with allibrootob in that Jon probably would have ended up like this with any woman. Even throughout the show's early years, he has always lacked a sense of motivation and drive. I think after all was said and done he was happier doing a 9-5 repetetive job because he didn't have to think or work too hard. In a weird sense, the marriage might not have lasted as long as it did if Kate was not as organized and take charge as she was. If Jon was left to rule the roost as he now complains he let Kate do, he would have buckled under the pressure long ago. As it is with her running everything, he grew disenchanted especially when he was forced to be home all the time and deal with everything she did. I guess that is when he desperately started craving his freedom again. I know everything has been said and done by now but it kind of sucks to know that if he had shared equally in the running of the family, then Kate could have stayed more of her sweet, happy go lucky self that she was when they were first together instead of having to become the drill sargeant.
ReplyDeleteI think that is why he hooked up with someone like Haylie, because she is the opposite of Kate. She hangs off of him and thinks he's the best think since sliced bread (as long as he keeps showering her with gifts and giving her opportunities in life that is)and is not giving him orders or telling what to do and when to do it. Then again though, she doesn't have 8 kids to care for so she can be easy and carefree and fun all the time.
It's so weird though to see them both at "home" now that they are separated. Speaking of which, I also think that while the current arrangement of rotating in and out of the house is least disturbing for the kids, I don't think there will ever really be closure until each family unit has their own real, permanent place. It just seems so up in the air to me, like there is always someone coming and going and there is no state of settlement. At least if each parent has their own place, the kids would know that when they are with mommy, that is where they are and it is stable. The way it is, I am sure they never know if mommy or daddy is going to be there and they always have to deal with awkward encounters when both parents are there. What's up with that by the way? Now that they are officially separated, why are they both there playing with the kids? I think it only adds to the stress of having the kids always watch to see how the parents are getting along and worse it might give them false hope that their parents are together again. Maybe this is just temporary until things are finalized and the kids have some time to adjust to having two separate families. I may be wrong but I think it will all be more stable in the long run for each parent to have a clearly defined home. As well as the kids, it must be hard for Jon and Kate to have to uproot each time the other comes to be with the kids. We don't know if Kate has another home of her own so when she has to leave, where does she go? Hotels, wandering around? It's so up in the air. Sigh....
People magazine cover (people.com) has Jon and Hailey on cover and the headline appears "Divorce to Dating in 20 days". The headline is wrong, is should appear "Dating then Divorce 20 days BEFORE". He has set up home in NYC Upper West Side.
ReplyDeleteKate, I hope you are staying strong, things will begin to be better, and you will see that you may be happier than ever in the years to come. I'm sure that in time you can remember the happy times, but someone out there will find you and he will love you and the kids.
Kate will be smiling again - Steve's back....
ReplyDeleteHer husband just finished showing off his new young girlfriend on a trip to France. So what’s a scorned mom of eight to do?
Why, have her bodyguard return to the job – the bodyguard who drives her husband nuts.
Yes, Steve Neild will soon be back guarding Kate Gosselin, at her request, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively. And that has a benefit beyond security for Kate – she gets the satisfaction of knowing that Jon hates Steve!
Kate is furious that Jon, 32, was recently photographed on vacation with his new girlfriend Hailey Glassman, 22.
And as RadarOnline.com reported exclusively on July 15, Jon has a secret apartment in New York.
Jon went back to his secret apartment the day he returned from France this week and RadarOnline.com watched as he brought in groceries. He then returned to the family home in Pennsylvania to take care of the kids, while Kate took off. Now he’s in for a surprise because the bodyguard he hates will soon be back in the picture.
Neild is a married man but rumors have flown that his relationship with Kate is more than professional. People close to the situation say that’s not true – and that Jon is behind the rumors.
Sources tell RadarOnline.com that Kate is specifically bringing back Neild because she’s furious with Jon and how he has paraded Hailey in public. When she first heard that they had gone to France together, a close source tells RadarOnline.com, she called Hailey a name we can’t print, but let’s just say it rhymes with “more.”
I agree with you dhwh. Jon is behaving very irresponsibly right now, there can be no question of that. But Kate has also acted irresponsibly in the past. To berate either of them and call Jon an a** along with all the other names he is being called, is no different than what we see on some of the hate sites that call Kate every name in the book. Both are wrong. The kids will see all of this and be affected by it. They love their father and their mother. These children are not being abused or neglected -- far from it. I believe Jon loves those kids as much as Kate does.
ReplyDeleteHi Baby Mama. Thanks for the frequent posts. I read this site multiple times a day. In the past I have commented more, but now find myself at a loss for words. My heart breaks for the whole family. i have spent many hours in prayer for all of them and for healing of their family. I am disheartened by Jon's recent actions. They make me sick to my stomach. My initial reaction was to grip about Jon but some part of me remembered the kids. I don't want them to search the internet and find more and more negative comments about their dad. I agree totally with dhwh1993.
ReplyDeleteI will continue to support this family and pray for them.
Thank you Baby Mama for doing the same.
.......and this is an interesting article speaking about Jon in the show early on.....
ReplyDeletehttp://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/blogs/losee/detail?entry_id=43800
another mom.....
ReplyDeleteThe "birds nest" (moving in and out) is the new modern way people do custody because in today's world everything is usually joint custody and kids split time 50/50. When my parents got divorced my mom was the custodial parent an dmy dad could take me every weekend (he didn't though). Nowadays they don't really do that. I think the "birds nest" is actually more stable and easier on the children. I work with kids who live half the week tot his house and half at the other and absolutely HATE IT. The Gosselin kids deserve that gorgeous house. The only way this will work is if Jon and Kate can beivil around each other. BTW when they were both playing with the kids it was when Jon got home and the Kate left. It probably wasn't that long and I don't see how that would confuse the kids. There is probably a schedule and at this point they are used to it.
Also, just wanted to say Jon is a doush bag and a bad role model, but unfortunately stupid people still get to see the kids. I hope the kids turn out okay after all this.
Kate stays at a nearby hotel under a production assistant name. And Jon's apartment was paid for by TLC. And Steve is back now. Don't you people pay attention?
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is that I hope Jon wasn't stupid and protected himself. She looks nasty. That's an STD waiting to happen.
ReplyDeleteAccording to radaronline, Jon and Kate were together to take the kids to the pediatrician this afternoon. No sign of Alexis, Leah and Hannah.
ReplyDeleteOMG! Just Jared is reporting that Jon's jeweler has stated that he sold Jon the engagement ring for Hailey! I cannot even imagine what this is going to do to the kids!
ReplyDeleteI think the "birds nest" is a good idea, but only up to a point. I can't imagine it works well if/when one/both parents remarry. I don't think two different couples would share a master bedroom very amicably. Plus it would result in two couples owning/renting 3 properties between them. That would be expensive.
ReplyDeleteIn this instance, I don't think Kate should let Hailey into their home, if she can somehow help it. If Jon really is serious about Hailey, then I think they'll have to divorce more traditionally with Kate taking the house and Jon and Hailey setting up shop elsewhere.
This thing is so ugly. Coming from a broken home myself I can tell you the people hurt the most in a divorce are the kids. I hope these two people can be mature enough to do the best by their 8 little ones. They are all growing up fast and probably understand more than Jon and Kate realize they do. I won't add to the name calling here, but let me just say we all know what I think about a certain guy.
ReplyDeleteKate and kids are in NYC
ReplyDelete"Summer fun in the city? More likely just a short business trip.
Kate Gosselin and her eight children, plus two sitters and security, arrived at a midtown Manhattan hotel Saturday morning.
As the family walked through the marble lobby – with Jon Gosselin notably missing – Kate impatiently told one of her sextuplets, evidently in response to a question, "Yes, this is where we are staying."
Every member of the family, stars of the TLC reality show Jon & Kate Plus 8, wore light summer attire: Kate, 34, was in jeans and high strappy sandals, her twin girls, 8, in pink and white stripped dresses. The five-year-old sextuplets: girls in yellow dresses, boys in blue shorts and shirts.
In anticipation of their arrival, the hotel set aside two elevators for the family's use, and two suites on the same floor. The family are believed to be in town for only a few hours for a photo shoot."
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20292151,00.html
Thanks BabyMama for all you do on this website.
ReplyDeleteI'm really confused. I thought Jon and Kate had just "filed" for divorce. I didn't think they were already divorced. I guess the law different in Pennsylvania than in North Carolina where I am? I didn't think you could get engaged (Jon & Hailey) until you were divorced and legally single again.
Jon's behavior is so sad. Not that he will ever admit it, but I really think that down the road he will come to regret the course that he has taken.
The only thing I know to do is to continue to pray for the whole family.
JL~ PLEASE RESEND YOUR POST!
ReplyDeleteSorry, Im so tired from this weekend. I accidentally deleted your post while trying to start a new page.
Occasionally people complain about the product placement that is becoming more and more prevalent on all shows, especially reality shows. I read yesterday that because of people using tivo, taping, etc., commercials aren't being watched. So...product placement is the advertisers solution. Sounds like shows are becoming more like The Truman Show.
ReplyDeleteBaby Mama...I hope you're tired from doing fun stuff this weekend!
My comment was rejected I guess. All I was saying was in support of the bird nest arrangement that Jon and Kate are doing. I feel that having been the child in the situation myself, people should consider that Jon and Kate are making an effort to tolerate one another to an extent for the sake of the kids. I can't really explain how difficult it can be as a kid to have one parent outlawed from your home.
ReplyDeleteI wish people wouldn't criticize the arrangement if they haven't been in this situation as a child. Divorce is often a life shattering experience for kids and to say moving on should happen in the form of separate homes in the matter of months sounds incredibly lacking in empathy for the children from my perspective. I'm curious if the people who are skeptical or critical of the bird's nest idea have been the child in a divorce before.
i am confused if kate was leaving for the night why did they all end up in new york
ReplyDeleteI was looking at the dates and it makes sense that the suitcase was for the trip to ny and its in a picture with the family in ny
ReplyDeletegramie7~ I think Kate was saying goodbye for a few days BEFORE the weekend. Originally when I did the post, I was under the impression that it was Kate's weekend. Its obvious that she was only away for a few days, because this weekend the family is in NY. Funny Jon is at his new pad and is not with them. Very sad indeed. They are currently filming and doing promos for TLC. The Little Couple was there as well.
ReplyDeleteAfter seeing this, I'm done watching anything to do with the Gosselin's with Jon making money off those kids. Go get a real job Jon. By the way Jon you said you didn't want the spotlight. Seems you love it now. You definetly are lower than the lowest thing on this earth.
ReplyDeleteJon is a pig. Doesn't he remember the "til death do us part" and "for better and for worse" part of the vows he took??? Yep... life is hard. With or without the stinking cameras in your face. Without the cameras, you'd be broke like most of us out here in the real world which would give you your own set of severe stresses. Having the cameras in your face gave you big bucks so you didn't have to worry about the day to day money issues like us peons. But it does expose every selfish thing you do to the whole world. Its one thing to be a selfish pig to your wife, but a whole 'nother story when the entire world sees you being a pig. You'll never have someone so solid and special as Kate. You made a really stupid choice, Jon. No worries. You'll be sorry in the long run because you'll be the loser in the end. Way to go Kate. Keep up the good work of doing what is best for you and the kids. Motherhood is hard work. I'm praying for you and the kids.
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