Thursday, February 6, 2014

John on Couples Therapy, Someday He Wants To Take The Sextuplets Away, But Not The Twins? Wants Kate To Have An Evaluation

This is the first time in a very long time that I jumped up out of my seat and ran to this blog to share my thoughts. It's been years of Kate hate and for a time just a few of us being angry and frustrated at Jon Gosselin hoping that years out of the spotlight would change him. At first I refused to watch him on couples therapy. But tonight as I got the kids to bed and sat down for a peaceful hour that i stumbled upon it while flipping channels. It's almost over at day 11 and for the short time he was on I was glued to my seat.

Recently you have seen Jon on TV making ridiculous claims about trying to take away his sextuplets, while dodging bullets as to why he hasn't seen the twins in months. Attacking Kate, calling her a bad mother using the Today Show as the only leverage this guy has. Keep in mind he lives in a cabin in the woods and is a waiter in a dumpy restaurant AND carries a gun.. Don't you know how judges love to hear about men with Ammo. But I'm getting to a point I swear...Seeing him tonight on Couples Therapy really makes you see that Kate is not the problem.. its HIM. If you need examples of this I came in at the right time. Watch next week when Jon's in the hot seat and the group tries to tell him that hes attracted to strong women and his current girlfriend is horrible for him. I literally now can't wait for next weeks episode.

For a man that is sooo out of the public spotlight, he's been promoting the show hard. Going to many events, I could not see how a man would go out of his way to claim that SOMEDAY when he gets money he's going to try to take his kids away from Kate. Someday after he gets back on Reality TV, makes money off of more interviews and appearances and get out of the money hole hes in. Now I really feel for his girlfriend. She has a no-money man with 8 kids. I applaud her for trying to straighten him out and try to make him a more stable person.. But watch next week, because all the things he's attacked Kate for Couples Therapy clearing shows that he brought back in a Kate-Clone. Either accept who you are attracted to.. basically a woman with more balls than you, or try and go out there and find a totally different make. Because they show Jon what his problem is, and well he's his own worst enemy. Couples Therapy 9pm Thurs. on VH1

NEWS/ 

Jon Gosselin Wants "Temporary Primary Custody" of Kids: Kate Needs a "Psychiatric Evaluation"


Jon Gosselin's not giving up on his eight children. In an exclusive interview with E! NewsAlicia Quarles, the divorced father of eight said he's concerned about leaving his children in Kate Gosselin's care. "I want temporary primary custody until Kate goes on a psychiatric evaluation," he said, claiming that his ex-wife "instill fear" and "controls" their kids.
Kate, 38, appeared with twins Mady and Cara, 13, on the Jan. 20 cover of People, where they gave readers an update on their family's life after Kate Plus 8 went off the air in 2011. "That article is total f---king bulls--t. I really think that was edited using Mady and Cara as the source," Jon alleged.
After the magazine hit stands, Kate took her elder daughters on a press tour that included TV appearances on NBC's Todayand ABC's The View. Asked how they handled their parents' divorce, Mady replied, "Honestly, it wasn't hard for us. I think it was harder for [our mom], definitely. It didn't really affect me and we still saw both parents. We were little, we were like 8 or 9, so we knew what was going on, but we didn't see the stuff [in the media]."He argued that Kate is "trying to win [the twins'] favoritism by making them look like a bad person."

6 comments:

  1. The show bothers me for several reasons in Jon's case. 1. The real couple in the room is Jon and Kate not Jon and Liz and Kate isn't even there to stand up for herself. 2. Jon isn't called out on his bull. It's poor emasculated Jon. 3. Both Jon and Liz are parents with kids that are going to see this.

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  2. Hey all. Sorry I haven't posted in a long time but a lot was going on in my life. I still read all comments here. Missed all of you a bunch!!

    As for Jon's latest show, I have zero interest in watching it. I don't know that I could logically put Jon and Reality in the same sentence. I think he struggles with accepting the word "reality" and I do feel sorry for him in many ways. Still he looks for somebody to blame while avoiding his own culpability in the mirror in front of him, hope that some day he can let go and grow up. Until then I don't think he'll ever be happy.
    Hugs,
    Linda

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  3. Linda "Original", I haven't watched Jon in this latest "Reality" show. Just read what everyone posts on Twitter. It's very telling that all he can talk about is Kate. They have been divorced for over 3 years...more than enough time for Jon to get over Kate. It's clear she is over him. I can't imagine how all his girlfriends over the years have felt about taking second place behind Kate. I know I wouldn't tolerate his inability to turn lose of Kate.

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  4. Now they are so busy bashing Liz that they don't have time to bash Kate. Truthfully, I am not a fan of what I see in her, but it irritates me to no end that nobody calls Jon on his part in it.

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  5. Comments are just that...'comments'. We the viewing audience form our opinions, and voice them, based on what is presented to us by the media. That said, my take on Jon and his reason for being with Liz is that he's (subconsciously) drawn to the 'familiarity' of her 'dominance'. I imagine that if he were with a different woman who treated him kindly, he may find himself feeling uncomfortable and want to pull away. So he's drawn to that which he's familiar with...unfortunately that seems to be vocally unrestrained, dominant women. My suggestion would be that he continues with counseling on his own to learn how to 'reclaim himself'. He will then be better equipped to be emotionally 'able' to have a healthy and happy relationship, and hopefully...to experience the feeling of being truly loved.


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  6. I'm so excited to be back on my blog after a brief work-ralted hiatus! Got some great news for some fresh paper on the new page. Should be a great season! :) xo

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