tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post7588485237751880533..comments2023-11-02T10:51:19.449-04:00Comments on Welcome To The Gosselin Family Fan Site: Jon Gosselin Interview "It's Not Fair on ABC NewsThe Travel Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08652768852732313054noreply@blogger.comBlogger98125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-79419222443915390452009-09-11T23:38:25.822-04:002009-09-11T23:38:25.822-04:00Hey everyone! I wanted to put this question out th...Hey everyone! I wanted to put this question out there since my friend from Gosselin Garb had to take a break from her site for a while.. Maybe you can help this person find out about these pillows!<br /><br />"Hi,I am a fan of your blog!!! I was wondering if you had any idea where I could find the pillows that are on the interview chair. They have dots in orange, green, and red and I believe the pillows are brown. Thanks so much!"The Travel Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08652768852732313054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-29942594483479938362009-09-11T22:49:21.078-04:002009-09-11T22:49:21.078-04:00MARSHALL said...
If this is suppose to be the &qu...MARSHALL said... <br />If this is suppose to be the "children's house" then ONLY the children and their PARENTS should be at the home. If they're suppose to spend time with the kids on their weeks, then they should spend it with them and not their floosies (Jon). Is'nt that why you have an apartment in New York? The house should be OFF LIMITS! <br />===============================================<br />VERY good point!SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12242806259961125116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-17412743232251141302009-09-11T20:57:54.734-04:002009-09-11T20:57:54.734-04:00Hope: You have a point. Maybe hailey is Jon's ...Hope: You have a point. Maybe hailey is Jon's brains right now. I am not excusing him by any means cause i know that he brought all this negative attention on himself. He also is the one going through with decision and being a jerk, but maybe hailey wants him to show her off to the kids. I bet she wants women to know that is her man.( even though she should know that women all over the place know that jon will have an affair with whoever.) good points hope and welcome! I like to hear other opinions.<br /><br />Allibrootob: Wow that was a very kind post! As an american that makes me feel really good that you support us. I am sorry for the canadians and americans that lost their life's. It was a tragic day and I hope that nothing like that happens ever again to anybody's country. What is your facebook page? is it under allibrootob? Thanks again!<br /><br />another mom: I really love to hear what everyone has to say. Even if you think jon is in the right in certain cases. like baby mama said we have to agree to disagree =)Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00487747224767131981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-19269212184752161052009-09-11T20:27:01.912-04:002009-09-11T20:27:01.912-04:00I think Hope is onto something. In fact, I said so...I think Hope is onto something. In fact, I said something similar when the girl du jour was Deanna. He's sounding like someone who is listening to someone who is much less mature and who has few responsibilities in life. Now, that said, he makes his own choices, obviously. <br /><br />The choice to make out with Hailey like a teenager in front of the paparazzi is just so childish and vindictive! There is no reason to do that other than out of spite and to get attention. <br /><br />I can't help but wonder if, deep down, Jon liked the fact that there were people out there who criticized Kate all the time. Now that he is the one taking most of the heat, he doesn't know what to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-2335729052907301172009-09-11T19:32:00.698-04:002009-09-11T19:32:00.698-04:00I am confused and need somebody to clarify. I thou...I am confused and need somebody to clarify. I thought Hailey just graduated in May. Is that right? If so, her "college antics" are just a few months in her past, right? If so, then I think it is legitimate to reference them as being relevant. Am I wrong on this?<br /><br />I have not seen Hailey's Facebook page. Does she really have background photos of her partying (drinking and smoking)? If so, I'd say her behavior is really relevant.<br /><br />I was looking at the Gosselins old website. I literally cried ar Kate's comments about organization suggestions, etc. In the last one she is so complementary about Jon's strengths and help. <br /><br />One last thought for now. I remember I think when cleaning at the new house, Kate talking about not being much of a country girl but it was what Jon needed. Isn't that what she said? If so, the irony of the situation is tremendous. Jon's living in NYC so he can be able to be his "real" self, and Kate's spending her time in the country where she's away from the city. (Yes, I rememer her referring to the panarama outside the window as being "all theirs" in that people wouldn't be hounding them. Alas, only a few months later, Jon wasn't happy there. I think Kate had said many things she wishes she'd said differently. But I give her a huge pat on the back for trying to help him find what he needed.<br /><br />I cry for both of them, but most of all for those children. Kate also, despite the pain, looks facially at least, a lot more relaxed. It may hurt a lot, but it's gotta be easier than living daily with walking on pins and needles. I think regardless of what happened in the past, you have to give her kudos for trying to keep a "happy" front for her children and for not trashing Jon.Linda "Original"https://www.blogger.com/profile/13379321670033802865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-74185857172501261772009-09-11T17:32:24.273-04:002009-09-11T17:32:24.273-04:00I think it needs to be said that just because some...I think it needs to be said that just because someone may see a valid point in defense of Jon once in a while, it doesn't mean that person is saying they think Jon is perfect or an angel or even that they are necessarily on his side. A truly objective person would be able give credit were credit was due just as easily as they were able to call a person out on their bad actions. It doesn't have to be an all or nothing situation where if you are a Kate fan, you automatically bash every word out of Jon's mouth or vice versa. In fact, I humbly believe that it is not possible that either party is 100% fault free and that both have made their share of mistakes and bad judgements whether it be now or in the past. Sometimes it bugs me that people have put Kate on such a pedestal lately just because she is keeping quiet about everything. Just because she doesn't talk about stuff doesn't mean she hasn't done anything to talk about. Also, please don't look at my last comment and assume I'm on Team Jon either because that would be unfair. All I am trying to say is that both parties have good points and bad and while many of you say how much you all loved Jon before, I have to wonder if that is true, then why is it so easy to turn on him so adamanatly? Don't get me wrong, I am the first to say (and have in fact said it many times before) how stupid he has been acting lately but that doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings and isn't suffering too in his own way.<br /><br />With that said, I have to say; that tirade against Schmecky was totally uncalled for. I think she is allowed to have a positive opinion about Jon on a certain matter without being practically called a troll or a deliberate instigator of arguments on the board. I also don't think that makes her a Jon fan that needs to go seek out another board that supports Jon. Baby Mama herself said this was a show fansite and that any opinions discussed here are welcome so long as they are not bashing Kate. In light of that, we should not bash each other either or make rude references to people's sanity or call them suckers or any of the other things that has been said lately.<br /><br />I have to say that I for one always enjoy Schmecky's posts also because they are so balanced and fair. She does not pretend Kate has made no mistakes and done no wrong just as she doesn't act like Jon is always the devil either. Her responses are well thought out and enjoyable to read and Schmecky, I also knew you were just joking around after your comment to Baby Mama about her priorities to her blog. Usually when you see :) or ;) or lol, it's an indication that the person is trying to make a joke. At least I thought it was pretty clear. <br /><br />Sorry for going on but to be honest, at times I am afraid to voice certain opinions because I don't want to be attacked for having the nerve to say something that totally doesn't insult Jon or that I know won't agree with the majority.<br />Many times I have written whole posts and then when I preview them, I figure they will just get flamed so I delete and don't bother. I (nor any of us)should have to apologize for or feel bad for any opinions we may have. That is why they are called opinions so on that note, I will share my opinions on a fresh page...another momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05511884814995959935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-83153951222237509512009-09-11T17:00:55.716-04:002009-09-11T17:00:55.716-04:00Marshall WOW that is the best comment, You had som...Marshall WOW that is the best comment, You had some really good points. That is the KIDS HOUSE and jon should not be allowed to bring any women since he sleeps with all of them. amen to your comment.Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00487747224767131981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-19453490292799836592009-09-11T16:47:08.795-04:002009-09-11T16:47:08.795-04:00I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW!!! Just looking at these pic...I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW!!! Just looking at these pictures makes my stomach knot. Jon is such a jerk. A complete scum bag. I wish I could give him a punch in the face right now.<br /><br />I'm not sure if you even want to look at these horrid things but if you do...<br />http://www.radaronline.com/photos/image/20151/2009/09/jon-gosselin-kissing-hailey-glassman<br /><br />Believe it or not, I let out a scream when I saw these. (No joke!) <br /><br />Hailey is disgusting and so is Jon. I hope he's happy ruining his kids lives.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13332377124881260169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-59315504069417517842009-09-11T16:31:59.543-04:002009-09-11T16:31:59.543-04:00oooh, MARSHALL, good post!!!! I have always belie...oooh, MARSHALL, good post!!!! I have always believed they need one or two constant nannies at the house for both parents, you are so right. So at least when the parents switch off there are consistencies with nannies. Sometimes in parenting you need to know what the heck was going on the day before.<br /><br />Also, re: Jon and his 20's (again), he/they are SOOOOOO incredibly fortunate that these are the least of their problems. With sextuplets, I am assuming that when they do survive, there are often very serious, long-term health problems with such preemies. Jon should be thanking his lucky starts that his 8 kids are all totally healthy and not living with serious physical impairments. Shame on his petty whining and complaining.<br /><br />By the way, I am Canadian from Toronto and have posted a 9/11 memorial on my Facebook Page today. There were a small number of Canadians who persished that day as well and this tragedy drew us closer together. I think of each US citizen today and particularly those that lost loved ones and friends. May peace prevail everywhere in the world the way it does in the US and Canada!allibrootobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12518437335148812025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-19371105961444942612009-09-11T16:20:14.984-04:002009-09-11T16:20:14.984-04:00Jon is completely blinded by "love" at t...Jon is completely blinded by "love" at the moment. What is he thinking?!? I doubt that Kate is trying to be dramatic to get what she wants. If I were Kate, I'd be bursting into to tears at just the thought of this nut-case (Hailey) walking on the floors of my home! I can't believe that Jon thinks that this is actually a good idea. Like others said, if he really puts his kids best interests first (which he claims to, but who knows?) then he wouldn't bring Hailey into the picture until he 100% sure that its for real. <br /><br />I'm sitting here laughing to myself right now thinking about Hailey with eight kids running around her, trying to "parent". Wow. I think that this image just made my day! lol. :o)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13332377124881260169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-43543757495789411742009-09-11T15:02:08.854-04:002009-09-11T15:02:08.854-04:00So Jon just HAS to kiss Hailey for the paparazzi i...So Jon just HAS to kiss Hailey for the paparazzi in Pennsylvania. All he wants to do is hurt Kate, he's not thinking about how much it'll really hurt his CHILDREN and to introduce Hailey so soon is a really bad choice among the many bad choices he's already made. <br /><br />You'd think he would want to put his children first and not Hailey. I think that introducing her to them can WAIT, they're 5 and 8 (Mady and Cara are almost 9), the divorce is already tough for them to handle and get used to. Seeing Daddy with someone other than Mommy isn't going to just be easy for them to adjust to so quickly.Tati O Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15883574666531554648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-56759988035264079882009-09-11T15:00:26.372-04:002009-09-11T15:00:26.372-04:00New here - but having a hard time stomaching GWOP ...New here - but having a hard time stomaching GWOP at the moment. It seems to have turned to a 'we hate Kate - Jon can do no wrong' site!....<br /><br />Anyway......this place will at least help keep balance for me! LOL<br /><br />Here's what I think:<br /><br />I think Jon is following 'Hailey's' advice. Why do I say this? Because I have a child the same age as Hailey. I see first hand how girls this age think (most of them anyway, so yes, I'm making a generalization). I can quite clearly see Hailey telling Jon "You need to go clear your name. You need to tell the world you love me...." I can see Hailey feeling the need for these 'redemptive' measures by Jon. It's an immature thought process. It's the "You need to show the world and all these other women that I am YOUR girl". I can see her telling him "You need to make sure to say that Kate abused you." I can see Hailey saying "If you love me you'll take me with you when you are with the kids". I can see Hailey COMPLETELY not understanding the impact that this would have on the kids (only seeing how it will 'affirm' that Jon really does love her in her mind). I can see Hailey sitting at home, on the internet, trying to keep Jon 'well informed' on how what reaction he's getting from people online. I can see Jon, who is clearly thinking with his wrong head, and who has shown time and time again that he can't do much of anything unless he has a woman figuring it out for him.....<br /><br />I see Jon listening more to Hailey than to any PR people he is paying. It at least appears that way! (For example - the photos of them going grocery shopping -- IMO to 'show the world' they are together and happy). Jon's every move seems very much at the mentality of a young 20-something (and not that of a 30-something father!)<br /><br />If Jon was kept from his family - then why aren't they speaking out to say all these things and back him up? Where and who were all these 'friends' he wanted to hang out with? Again, not ONE willing to stand up and back him up? What kind of friends are they? Seems to me that the only 'friends' he has HAVE spoken out - Kate2, Michael Lohan, Christian Audglier, etc. Problem is that NONE OF THEM tell the same story Jon is trying to tell! Maybe THAT is why the people Jon is 'reuniting' with are hush-hush -- because to tell the truth - they'd be exposing Jon and his 'stories'. Maybe, and hopefully, he IS reuniting with some friends/family who have MORALS.<br /><br />Ok - enough of that rant (and thank you for the opportunity to vent it!) but another question/problem I have with all of this - is the 'agreed upon' divorce stuff - supposedly just waiting for the Judge to sign off on it? Surely Kate will back track and realize that Jon is NOT acting in the best interest of the kids and that changes to this agreement need to be made?? Sorry - but I would not/could not have allowed myself to share a house with my ex for custody if it meant his new girlfriend/girlfriends saying there, too. In fact, I don't think it's a good idea to introduce kids to the 'new guy/gal' after parents are divorced until at least a year or more after the divorce! Not to say they couldn't have a relationship with someone - but just because the parent is ready to move on doesn't mean the KIDS are ready to move on - and the KIDS need to be the MAIN FOCUS of everything parents do during and after their divorce. I guess my question is WHY? What good is it going to do the kids for Hailey to start staying there NOW? I can see a whole lot of HARM it can do - but clearly can't see the good (and this would be my same feelings if it were Kate doing it or if Jon were dating Mother Teresa herself!)<br /><br />Ok - I don't want to wear out my welcome right off that bat - but, again, thanks for letting me rant!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06588341528667106064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-35572309135875424632009-09-11T14:44:27.970-04:002009-09-11T14:44:27.970-04:00Well put, Marshall. Couldn't have said it any ...Well put, Marshall. Couldn't have said it any better. Love it. :-Dlucysmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10611079988227357679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-32011459388606975262009-09-11T14:38:33.741-04:002009-09-11T14:38:33.741-04:00I agree with Gluten Free regarding getting the cou...I agree with Gluten Free regarding getting the court involved to protect the children from any more irreparable harm to their already delicate psyche. Pleaaaase, Kate, file for full custody!<br /><br />Secondly, I wonder if the deed to the house will remain in both Jon & Kate's name. If I were Kate, I'd buy him out so I'd have full rights and protection to who has access onto the property (esp. his girlfriends).lucysmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10611079988227357679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-39793321121023606692009-09-11T14:29:58.021-04:002009-09-11T14:29:58.021-04:00SchmeckyGirl I didn't feel like you were attac...SchmeckyGirl I didn't feel like you were attacking me at all! <br /><br />Jon is just gross he makes me so mad I really don't know how Kate does it b/c I'm just not that big of a person I would have went off on him like bees on honey!! I know she is doing it for her kids but I really hope she protects them from him to! I'm afraid she won't b/c of how she may still feel about Jon and is afraid of making the wrong choice! Now I don't' feel that Jon should never ever see his kids or anything like that but I do feel a drug test should be in order and the Judge should look at his recent actions and make the best decision on what he/she feels is best for the children! I think Kate should fight to make it where Hailey can't be around the children! Sorry I know its harsh but Hailey has done zero to prove herself other then make out with Jon and show she drinks and smokes cigarettes..I really really hope Kate has good lawyers! I wish Jon would snap out of whatever it is he is in b/c his kids really do love him and I just feel how in the world do they understand any of this at all? So sad really.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09645311872027174575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-29834477463941827892009-09-11T14:18:21.591-04:002009-09-11T14:18:21.591-04:00If this is suppose to be the "children's ...If this is suppose to be the "children's house" then ONLY the children and their PARENTS should be at the home. If they're suppose to spend time with the kids on their weeks, then they should spend it with them and not their floosies (Jon). Is'nt that why you have an apartment in New York? The house should be OFF LIMITS! <br /><br />Also, both J&K should be deciding on a babysitter TOGETHER. Not he picks some bimbo he meets in a bar and she has her sitter. They should both be in agreement with who they should use (hopefully a nice matronly lady). <br /><br />I think Jon is the scum of the earth and to think I once liked this guy. I think he has been emotional absent from this family for some time. Why is he crying about what he's lost in his 20's? There are many families out there with more children then he has and they make it work! No one twisted his arm to get married or have children. If you didn't want that route, then you shouldn't have taken it!!! I think he blames a lot of his failures on Kate and the fact that she was the one who wanted more children after the twins. Does he ever mention that she quit her job to stay home full time with the kids when they were infants!! So what that she's off making appreances and book tours (he wasn't interested in doing that). That's her JOB to support YOUR FAMILY! It's not like they can't afford help and he couldn't find something to do with is time if he didn't want to be a stay at home dad - come off it, you screw up!!!!!!!!!!! Jon should have shut his mouth, milked the show for what it's worth and when the show ended, go on your merry way. Doesn't he realize that once this show if over with, so is the MONEY and then his moron will be hitting the streets once again looking for a JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!MARSHALLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04963444643938188167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-23318829319848068162009-09-11T14:08:48.178-04:002009-09-11T14:08:48.178-04:00Back to on topic:
Regarding Hailey Glassman and w...Back to on topic:<br /><br />Regarding Hailey Glassman and whether she should be around the G8. I sure hope that the kids are not allowed to have computer time without supervision. If so they run the risk of seeing Haileys photos she currently has posted. She, J and their friends defend that everything is from college days and that she shouldn't be judged by those choices but that just doesn't seem to be true. Her Twitter account is current and it displays photos of her in party mode. When the photo was taken isn't relevant; Hailey herself posted them on her own website and therefor is promoting that lifestyle to others. Again not anyone I would accept as a responsible person to engage with my kids in any way.<br /><br />If J really had the kids interests in consideration, he would have the young lady clean up her current public and self-published image first. But no, he just blindly defends her. Whether the negative image is deserved or not also isn't relevant. What image will be seen by his children and what conclusions they might draw as a result is the most important factor here. I only wish J would defend and protect his children to the degree he tries to do for his Lover.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00107450920376475898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-80582240571540286312009-09-11T13:34:18.867-04:002009-09-11T13:34:18.867-04:00Awesome picture in memory of 9/11. Thanks for the ...Awesome picture in memory of 9/11. Thanks for the thoughtful and positive statement. I heart NY and the USA!<br /><br />PS - noone would dare urinate on this menopausal raging hormonal woman's cheerios.... but if they tried, I would most certainly call them out for it. Don't we live in a great country where we all can voice opinions? Even those with the passive agressive tactics. J should try a different approach as its just not working for him right now. Silence would be the best option IMO.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00107450920376475898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-7711557883533046382009-09-11T13:26:54.482-04:002009-09-11T13:26:54.482-04:00....in a way I do judge Hailey on her actions in c.......in a way I do judge Hailey on her actions in college, mainly because she's only 22, so college was quite literally just yesterday. Can people change that quickly? She looked as though her life was beyond wild, and it's now only a year or two later. She couldn't possibly have changed overnight.<br /><br />It was good to hear feedback from someone above who said that the courts blocked her ex from having girlfriends over too soon. If Jon can't control himself, I hope somebody (other than Kate) will impose control for him.allibrootobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12518437335148812025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-28551679412365579392009-09-11T13:20:40.355-04:002009-09-11T13:20:40.355-04:00Ohh and Jon had to announce to everyone on E! that...Ohh and Jon had to announce to everyone on E! that he and Hailey are wonderful..this is something he had to make an announcement over.. made me sick..<br /><br />However, this is like the 4th story on Jon & Kate alone by In-Touch magazine that was totally bogus. Forget about Brad & Angelina..That is the same rag that interviewed Jon. Now I will never buy it again...The Travel Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08652768852732313054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-26015398642994729822009-09-11T13:06:33.433-04:002009-09-11T13:06:33.433-04:00Jon's interview made perfect sense to me. Rig...Jon's interview made perfect sense to me. Right now Jon's ship is going down. Jon won't admit he's at the helm though. Kate's career opportunities abound, while Jon's are drying up. He's mad about this. And like a petulant child, he's lashing out, grasping at sticks to throw. But at the end of the day, these sticks are hitting the kids. He's in his last 5 minutes of fame and trying to make the most of them. Stay strong, Kate. Fight for what's right for your kids. PA courts - do what's right for these kids! Jon, get lost!!Jen Santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15520754075481072287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-7392608699912653182009-09-11T13:04:09.202-04:002009-09-11T13:04:09.202-04:00Schmeckygirl~ I loved your comment, and didn't...Schmeckygirl~ I loved your comment, and didn't take any offense to it at all! In fact I did laugh about it and my stupid typo. I always appreciate your posts. And though I do not always agree with them, I respect your feelings. I took no offense to anything you said and laughed about it. <br /><br />I was speaking to everyone on the blog just to agree to disagree. I love this site BECAUSE we all get along! So we may not agree with those that have comments here but whatever, it's OVER.<br /><br />Please let me say sorry for the lack of posts on this site. I will try to do another tonight. Today is 9/11, it's my one day I took off and the weather is cold, rainy and miserable. It's a day that I will spend with my family as we mourn the loss of friends and those we don't know.The Travel Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08652768852732313054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-60577435316180970022009-09-11T10:50:46.286-04:002009-09-11T10:50:46.286-04:00I totally agree that it's too early for Jon to...I totally agree that it's too early for Jon to introduce the children to Hailey. Especially as his girlfriend. Especially for Mady and Cara because they understand more. I'm not sure the little kids will even understand what is going on. <br /><br />If he insists on doing it, he should not be affectionate to Hailey in front of his children. Or introduce her to them as anything but a friend. Not yet. And Hailey should respect that. Then again those poor children have so many different people coming and going in their lives right now that they probably wouldn't even notice her.<br /><br />I wish they were going to counseling. They really need it. Especially if they are going to see their father dating.<br /><br />As for Jon dating Hailey, I'm not going to judge her based on her college years. I hope she is a different person now. Most people are different than when they were in college. College today is not the same as when most of us were young. The partying is so different now. Much worse.<br /><br />I just really, really, really hope she is not still doing any of the things she did back then. If so, then no, the children should not be around her now or in the future. Actually neither should Jon.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12242806259961125116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-60564800291472553542009-09-11T10:39:09.946-04:002009-09-11T10:39:09.946-04:00Terri said...
I say: You don't have to cry fo...Terri said... <br />I say: You don't have to cry foul when you are challenged. Come on! You are a big girl! If you would not be the constant instigator of contemptious conversation your thoughts would not be attacked as often. Frankly it appears that many find the need to counter your thoughts on a frequent basis these days. At first I believed your statements were made to stimulate debate; but now I really am beginning to question your motives. The shot at BabyMama last night for example; you were obviously the only one laughing at the snarky comment you made.<br /><br />Lastly, it is most interesting that you feel the need to repost your comments 2 days in a row just to insure recognition. For Gods sake, take a breath every once and a while.....<br />-------------------------------------------------<br /><br />Wow Terri. I’m at a loss for words. Okay, not really. I hope Baby Mama lets me respond to you. I think the comments on this blog should be about Jon and Kate and things that pertain to their situation, not us going back and forth at each other.<br /><br />I first would like to apologize to Baby Mama if she was offended by my priorities comment. I'M TRULY SORRY BABY MAMA. I was NOT being snarky. It wasn't meant to be snarky in the least bit. It was purely said in jest. I was being facetious, not snarky. I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful either. I’m sorry if that’s how it came across. Why would I expect anyone to put their blog before their family? I would hope they wouldn’t! I didn't think she was offended because she posted it. Now that I know humor is off limits here I won't joke around anymore. I also apologize that now I’m posting off-topic. <br /><br />Back to Terri... I can take being challenged about my opinions. In fact I enjoy it. I enjoy a good debate. When someone else makes a good point I enjoy reading it and seeing it through their eyes and maybe even see their view. I just didn’t appreciate my comments being called stupid. I would never say that to another person even if I felt that way. As frustrated as I feel reading some comments I always try to reply in a respectful manner. I think respect for each other on this site is important.<br /><br />I don't have any "motives". What motive could I possibly have? I'm not dating Jon. I don't get paid by him. What do I have to gain? What does anyone here have to gain by stating our opinions? I find such an accusation bizarre. I don't even defend Jon in everything he says or does. I don’t constantly bash Kate. I’ve defended both of them and I’ve said things against both of them. I come on this site because I like to discuss Jon and Kate Plus 8 and I enjoy the different viewpoints. No one I know watches the show so I only get to discuss it here. Baby Mama runs a class act blog, unlike some other places. I enjoy it here. <br /><br />You’re right. I am a big girl. That's why I addressed Ashely and let her know how I felt. I didn’t attack her. <br /><br />If you only look for the negative in my comments you will only see the negative. My comments aren’t to bring anyone down. If you don’t like my opinions then skip over them. I, for one, enjoy reading everyone’s comments whether or not I agree with them. <br /><br />If Baby Mama doesn’t like my posts she has the option to not publish them (hopefully that won’t be the case with this comment).<br /><br />And Ashely, thank you for your kind response. You seemed to take it like I meant it… Not how Terri took it.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12242806259961125116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1914552682332144225.post-1229998230403998102009-09-11T08:46:18.272-04:002009-09-11T08:46:18.272-04:00honeyluv...
The "Jon was forced to have the ...honeyluv...<br /><br />The "Jon was forced to have the tups even though he didn't want to" argument is one that lets Jon have no accountability for his own actions.<br /><br />Sometimes people say no to having more kids, but then after a rational discussion with their husband/wife decide they do want more. Does that mean they are "forced" into it by their partner? Or does it just mean that they changed their mind?<br /><br />You forget that Jon has always said they both wanted to try for one more. You cannot hold Kate solely responsible for that decision. Jon is a man, and he is responsible for his own actions. <br /><br />p.s. This argument that Kate forced Jon to try for more children is one that they use on GWOP... but you probably already know that. : )<br /><br /><br />_______________________________<br /><br />I misstyped when I said that Jon felt his whole twenties were wasted. I should have said that his entire actions on the interview made it seem like he felt that to be true.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com